Do You Believe? Your Answer May Surprise You

You’ve listened to people ask, “Are you a believer?” 

Some answer, “I trust in Him. I believe.”

The word belief is often attached to religious faith. Those who do not have such convictions are called agnostics or atheists. But the word has a broader scope.

Those who deny faith continue to believe differently.

Allow me to explain.

Perhaps unaware of it, they appear to rely on others in a manner similar to how religious people depend on a deity. This is not to say true believers lack the same everyday bolstering backstop found in non-believers.

Consider the pedestal occupied by physicians, especially those doctors we appreciate through long familiarity. They earn our trust if they are confident, knowledgeable, and kind. We turn to them for the maintenance of our lives and health. We entrust them with the well-being of our children.

Their role is godlike, without the ritual, ancient scripture, prayer, and attendance at a house of worship.

Such women and men provide confidence and strength, the ability to persist, the knowledge we are not alone, and, often, that all will be well. Healing us is their business, and sometimes we consider our survival miraculous.

Ah, but perhaps you recall times when a physician did not save you from disability or someone you love from dire illness.

Then you may have a crisis of faith in him, not unlike the intrusion of doubts about God. You might reject one or both, but not everyone does. Many recognize the medical profession’s limitations and continue to hold on to their confidence in a doctor’s value. Or, they might search for another practitioner to take his place.

The human response to tragedy is not so different in those who are religious. Blaming your God or yourself is common. Uncertainty frequently arises about why the misfortune was permitted by an all-good and all-powerful being.

“What did I do to deserve this?” can be followed by self-incrimination or pointing the finger at a deity. Just as the atheist might seek another doctor, the believer may seek another sect — or none.

Yet many — perhaps more — recover their belief and reliance, and the shaken trust regrows. The New Testament provides consolation and an alternative view of adversity:

And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28

Regardless of the particular religion, the sufferer might accept the limitations of a superior being alongside the strengths attributed to him.

The need for assurance provided by a cosmic entity or influential person on our side is vital. To be without faith in anyone, mortal or immortal, is a lonely and terrifying human experience. 

We desire others we can trust with parts, if not the whole, of our well-being. They come to recapitulate our parents’ role as protectors in our early lives, if not to the same extreme.

Unfortunately, the urge to lean on someone or something more substantial can also be misplaced.

Some are vulnerable to the allure of charismatic, persuasive political leaders who disguise their corruption with smoke and mirrors. They offer much the same sense of caring about us, defending us from real or imaginary enemies as our mom and dad did, and offering the belief in a better future. To an extent, these individuals might be perceived as the agents of the actual deity, doing HIS work on Earth.

If officeholders are unscrupulous, sound evidence of their iniquity is sometimes shrugged off. More than a few followers find the need to believe is more essential than being alone without a worldly savior. The tricksters can appear as necessary as a God in the heavens and reinforce the thought HE has willed the anointed one’s presence.

Facts fail to defeat our reliance on a dynamic and persuasive duplicitous leader if his departure would leave us with no substitute champion to fill his role. This woman or man stands unique and extraordinary, occupying a position reminiscent of the physician or loved caretaker.

We live in hope and belief.

In their search for someone or something more extraordinary than themselves, the faithful and the faithless are not as different as they sometimes think.

In a world of uncertainty, we are thereby sustained.

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Both of the photographs were provided with the kind permission of Laura Hedien: Laura Hedien Official Website. Both date from this year. The first captures a Sunrise in the Italian Dolomites in early September. The second offers the Dolomites in the Clouds.

24 thoughts on “Do You Believe? Your Answer May Surprise You

  1. A lovely and thoughtful post! I love how you point out that we’re closer than we sometimes think. I agree – were wired to yearn. We just have to consider carefully what we are believing in.

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  2. Wow, you definitely have shown how people of faith and nonbelievers are similar in thought and not as far apart as one would think. Excellent commentary.

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  3. An Audience of One

    You hit on so many interesting things here, Dr. Stein – I’m intrigued by the way you’re able to weave in multiple concepts without being overly verbose. And I love what you said about us living in hope and belief. I suppose it’s just the object of that hope and belief that varies. Very thought-provoking post. Thank you!

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    • The need for assurance provided by a cosmic entity or influential person on our side is vital. To be without faith in anyone, mortal or immortal, is a lonely and terrifying human experience. We desire others we can trust with parts, if not the whole, of our well-being.”

      These are the words I find myself going back, and rereading. So true! And yet to be a “believer” (whether in a deity or in any human being) there has to be some level of trust and some level of faith not just in them but also in yourself and your own ability to have the wisdom to know who or what deserves your belief. Therein lies the difficulty.

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      • What you described is so, brewdun. You put it in a very economical way, getting to the heart of our (and the world’s) dilemma. One can attempt to accumulate evidence about who or what is trustworthy, but to the extent the world is always changing, there is always a risk in placing our trust in something or someone. Is such trust permanent? A rhetorical question. Only time and experience tells us the answer. Thanks for your spot-on comment, brewdun.

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    • Yes, Kendra. Choosing the object is such a simple idea and so difficulty to accomplish in a satisfying way. What’s more, as we age, we often have to return to such questions and consider whether the fitting answer of 25 or 50 years past still is best for us and our fellow woman and man. Thank you.

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  4. I believe that the Hubbel telescope doesn’t bring us “fake news.” However, I don’t believe that “coffee is bad for you”, only to find out later from the same sources that “coffee is good for you.” Laws are subject to the whims of the people who enforce them. It does get “squishy” now that I’m thinking about it.

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    • As to the coffee and similar questions, Joan, there is much misunderstanding about the way science works. Knowledge accumulates and with more research, long standing truths do get modified.

      You and I both remember when cigarette smoking was thought to be harmless. Arthroscopic knee surgery results turned out to be less impressive than originally thought.

      It is frustrating, I admit. But I am overall more impressed by those who are open enough to change their minds when the weight of the evidence changes.

      In the late 19th century surgeons used the same instruments, often common saws, without cleaning them before the next surgery. Many of them weren’t initially persuaded when Joseph Lister offered evidence of the infections they were causing by not attempting to create sterile treatment of wounds.

      Who knows what is ahead of us when, at some future time, the scientists of that time will think of the MDs of today as horribly backward in many areas. Still, we need to trust our physicians and their efforts to find the best treatments.

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      • I’ve been fortunate enough to be healthy. So I guess I can indulge in skepticism about the latest “do and don’t”. On the few occasions when I have been in trouble, I admit I’ve clung to whatever the doc way saying. (Until I felt better.) So I guess I’m a “convenient believer.”

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      • I’m happy it has worked out for you, Joan. I’d have hated not to have had you in my life.

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  5. I can tell when I need to read a powerful piece a time or two…to let the perspective of the author sink in. I did that last night with your post, Dr. Stein…you gave us much to mull…and this morning, one aspect continues to stand out to me and it’s this: “The need for assurance provided by a cosmic entity or influential person on our side is vital. To be without faith in anyone, mortal or immortal, is a lonely and terrifying human experience.” Yes…however we come by it, faith is a pivotal and powerful, life-affirming experience…but as you said, faith can be misplaced, poorly placed. I love the ideology and imagery of it as a quest (or as Wynne said, a yearning): a “…search for someone or something more extraordinary than themselves.” Many thanks! ❤

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  6. Well reasoned, Dr. Stein: “[T]he faithful and the faithless are not as different as they sometimes think.” In a world of uncertainty, we find our way as best as we can.

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  7. Thank you for the affirmation, Rosaliene. You have seen both types up close, sometimes in one person, so your opinion carries much weight.

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  8. Tamara Kulish from https://tamarakulish.com/

    “If officeholders are unscrupulous, sound evidence of their iniquity is sometimes shrugged off. More than a few followers find the need to believe is more essential than being alone without a worldly savior. The tricksters can appear as necessary as a God in the heavens and reinforce the thought HE has willed the anointed one’s presence.

    Facts fail to defeat our reliance on a dynamic and persuasive duplicitous leader if his departure would leave us with no substitute champion to fill his role. ”

    We have been hearing and seeing these very things being played out by leaders on the world stage. They all seem to have the same playbook, and many of the “masses” are eagerly gulping up their spoken words. Sadly.

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  9. Absolutely, Tamara. We have all been fooled by “con-men.” That includes some of the brightest people I know. Thank you for this observation and be well.

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  10. Beautiful post, Dr. S! I’m probably more agnostic than I am anything else. Long story there. I was hurt by religion, so it is hard for me to congregate with others in that regard. But I hold beliefs that are true, pure at heart, and loving. And speaking of loving, I wanted to wish everyone here a very Happy Thanksgiving or Indigenous Mourning and Appreciation or both. I’m learning more and more about how different US holidays affect different groups of people, so I’m not sure anymore what is appropriate to say. But my heart is there, and I’m in the learning process, like all of us earthlings are. And no matter any of our beliefs, love is a universal language that is often felt and communicated, even if the recipient has a difficult time accept it, interpreting it, or feeling it fully. Love’s intent and language in its agape form and phileo form are true gifts to give and receive! May we all experience agape and phileo love in our lives, as we reflect on what Thanksgiving means to us today. (PS: I borrow those terms, agape and phileo, from the Christian faith. To simplify, agape means unconditional love, and phileo love means a naturally existing kind of love that is unforced and much like the friendship kind of love, as I recall. Dr. Stein might know more about that. But as he speaks about faith, I’m reminded of the importance of love, regardless of our beliefs or our faith strengths. For “without love, I am nothing,” as the Scripture says somewhere. May everyone have a safe, blessed, and fun day today! (As for me, I’m going to be dealing with cooking an entire Thanksgiving spread for myself, which I will then freeze and eat in various forms for the next few months. I may be cooking for 2 days to get it all done by tomorrow, but I’m taking time here and there to pace myself, given my CFS/ME challenges. I can’t wait to actually enjoy my meal when I’m done cooking today or tomorrow. I may just have bits and pieces of my sides, as I cook them before I cook the turkey. LOL.)

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  11. Lovely and loving thoughts, Dragon Fly. May you serve as a model for all of us!

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    • Thank you, Dr. S. I’m no model though. I’ve made many mistakes, and let resentments and hate linger inside. But learning the different kinds of love, and feeling glimpses of love from time to time, became a model for me to pay it forward. Being a trauma survivor, it’s much easier loving than being loved. But then again, I had to also learn the difference between being a doormat and loving, and also the difference between being used and being truly loved. I’ve experience great love from atheists and agnostics and religious people of all kinds. I’ve also experienced some bad things from people who were religious or not. I think that people can demonstrate the kind of love discussed in many religious texts without having even read or believed in those texts. 🙂 I also consider those who have been born with mental illness, a learning disability, or some sort of neurological disorder, which impairs their ability to perceive religion to the point of believing and understanding it. Such people may not hold any beliefs because of their impaired brains, but seeing how some people like that can love or receive love from others, survive in this chaotic world, and manage to find ways to coexist shows me that we need not be perfect, intelligent, beautiful, or resounding gongs in order to feel worthy of love, relationships, and existence in this world. We may not have all the answers for all the whys regarding all the bad stuff, but there’s a lot of good stuff, too. I’m learning to understand when to focus on the not-so-good stuff, but also to focus every day on the good stuff. Loving oneself, now that is tough, but important, too. I’m still learning how to love myself.

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